The blessed month of Ramadhan is a time for us to sacrifice
our hunger and thirst for the sake of Allah. In order to attain nearness to
Allah we resist our body’s natural urge for food and water and we instead
enrich our spirituality by nourishing it with Zikr-e-Ilahi, prayers, and the
recitation of the Holy Quran. There is another very important aspect of
Ramadhan that we must be mindful of. This is the personal Jihad that we must
undergo in order to better ourselves, not only for the month of Ramadhan, but
forever InshAllah. Just as our physical bodies have a yearning for food and
drink, our minds tend to be inclined towards getting easily angered, upset,
and/or jealous. We must strive to
suppress these emotions, as they don’t harm anyone as much as their harm
ourselves.
Here is a “Ramadhan Checklist” of all the things that we can
try to do in order to win the pleasure of Allah this Ramadhan. Take some time
and go through the list, there will surely be some good reminders for us all as
to how we can better ourselves InshAllah.
Have I:
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Made intention to fast and ate Suhoor on time
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Prayed all 5 prayers on time
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Read Quran today
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Read a book/excerpt about Islam or Ahmadiyyat
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Read one hadith of the Holy Prophet pbuh
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Forgave somebody who made us angry or hurt us
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Smiled at someone
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Been kind to my family/spouse/friends
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Avoided gossip and idle talk
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Sacrificed a show/movie/other form of
entertainment in order to pray/read Quran
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Did not argue or swear today
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Fed a hungry person or neighbor
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Made a charitable donation/Sadqa
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Did not waste food
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Prayed Taraveeh prayer
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Went to the Masjid for prayer
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Memorized a Surah that I do not know/may have
forgotten
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Tried to end a fight between two people/family
members
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Shared kind words/prayers with loved ones
May Allah enable us all to not only abstain from eating and drinking during our fasts, but also from negative mindsets and tendencies. May Allah give us the strength to make sacrifices for the sake of Allah. May Allah enable us all to shrink our egos, open our minds
and soften our hearts during this blessed month of Ramadhan. Ameen
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